Culture is powerful as the values emanating from it are shaped by circumstances and vicissitudes that change and adjust along the lines of the times. Two factors, a genuinely rooted vision of sex that is male dominated and explicitly experienced and practiced and a strong influence of radical Christian churches explain what is happening in Africa. A more pragmatic approach is needed.

As i look back at my life, i can remember asking myself the question " Why am i here?". My childhood left me feeling like i was not love or even cared for. It didn't seem to matter how much i wanted attention from my parents, i never got it.