Being always a good listener, the best friend wise enough and with always the right answers to my friends, now i am in a situation i need to listen to myself, get things right and try to forge ahead. Will I change my life or will my life be changed by the events? Will have the willpower to make these changes? In quest of serenity and happiness, we always need to look our inner side and find somewhere the courage to be honest with ourselves. It will take time, no rush but you need to remain committed to your inner quest.